The History of Grandmas Gifts, written by Founder, Emily Douglas
In 1991, I lost my grandmother, Norma Ackison, to breast and lung cancer. She was the glue that held my family together and still to this day we have never quite recovered from this tragic loss. My grandma was diagnosed in 1989 with breast cancer and became sick very quickly. I was only 9 when she passed away, but she taught me lessons that have changed my life forever. While I was very young at the time of her passing, I vividly remember her smile, laugh, stories, and mostly her kind heart. I know that while she was taken from my family only 6 days after her 60th birthday, she still to this day watches over us.
Norma Belcher was born the twelfth of twelve children and shortly following her birth, her father died leaving her mother to raise the children in Depression-era Appalachia. My grandmother learned all too well the challenges and humiliation of poverty. She often shared with me stories about the way she had felt when other children had made fun of her tattered clothing and home with newspaper curtains. Too often people that lack the funds to live up to societys standards are seen as ignorant or lazy, yet this is often not the true story. My great- grandmother, Belle, always told her children, Its not a crime to be poor, just inconvenient. While we only had a short time with my grandmother, she worked to teach us lessons about appreciating how lucky we were as children, that it is not wise to judge people because of how much money they have, that hard work and dedication pays off, and that love conquers all.
My grandmother also never forgot the caring neighbors and family who reached out to help her and the family. After her marriage to Odell Ackison, and as an owner of a small business, my grandma never forgot her roots. Often she took us along to shop for clothes and toys to donate at Christmas time or to deliver food to veterans who lived in caves throughout the county. As children, my brother, sister, and I believed that everyones grandmother did the same. We always knew our grandma was special, but we never knew just how special. Once she passed away we began to realize that not everyone acted this way and the need for help was greater than imagined. Thus, through her words and her actions she taught us that it is our responsibility to reach out and help others who do not know the advantages that we often take for granted.
I will never forget my grandmothers story, her smile, or her amazing ability to decorate the most beautiful Christmas tree. To my siblings and I she always saw her as majestic, loving, and strong. As a young child I never understood why people were drawn to her or approached her for help. My mother says that even when she was young, strangers would walk up to my grandmother, sharing hardships, life stories, and the need for help. My mother believes that people could see something magic in her eyes and felt drawn to her. My grandmother, Norma, helped others not to have her name in the paper or to be recognized for an award. She thought people were just supposed to be that way.
Following my grandmas passing, I knew that I could not let the lessons she taught me be silenced by cancer. Cancer could simply not and will not be the final victor. In her memory and with her teachings, Grandmas Gifts was born. I can feel that my grandma is with us and is cheering our every success. She is and always will be in my heart and mind! Thank you Grandma!